Hello Doc, I’ve recently run into issues in growing my social circle as part of the process of becoming a better, more well-rounded person with the hopes of finding a significant other, getting married, having a family, and ultimately ending up living a life that I can feel good about living. One of the things…
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Should I Get Plastic Surgery In Order To Get Dates?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Would it be too much trouble for you to help solve an ongoing debate between me and my friends? I’m a brand-new college graduate and the “ugly” one in my friend group, just as I was in high school and will probably always be. I’m slim, fit, tallish but not too tall,…
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I Slept With Someone I Shouldn’t Have. What Do I Do Now?
Hi Doc, I’ve appreciated your advice over the years and I’m wondering if you can help me with the issue I’m dealing with currently. I am a straight woman in my early 30s, and everyone involved here is also in their early 30s. The whole story is long, but the short version is I messed…
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How Do I Build a Social Life From Scratch?
Hi Doc, I discovered your site yesterday and I thought that you give some pretty solid advice in the articles that I read, so I figured I would throw in a question of my own. A little bit about me first: I am a 25 years old virgin guy (never even held hands with a…
How To Build Stronger Friendships
Let’s talk about memes for a second. I promise, this will all make sense, so stick with me. For all that folks make oddly big deals out of memes, “meme magic” and and the like, I’ve found that they’re an interesting source of insight. I mean, part of why I got my ADHD diagnosis was…
How Do I Stop Letting My Fear Sabotage My Relationship?
Hey Doc, let me start by saying “Thank you” for your work. It helped me get into dating and relationships when I was terrified of the prospect and provided uplifting-but-no-bullshit advice when I needed it. Now I ask you more directly for advice since a) I haven’t been able to find this topic in your…
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