Hi Dr. NerdLove, I am a forty-something woman who has had (and still enjoys!) a very intense and independent life… but this seems to make me too “scary” (or should I say impressive/unusual/…weird?) to date for men my age: I speak five languages, I have lived in several countries and have a master’s degree, I…
Archives for July 2022
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Meet More Women?
Doctor, I’m a 29 years-old guy with no dating experience whatsoever. Never been on date, never kissed, let alone had sex. The whole thing is so alien to me that I have a hard time picturing that ever happening. I haven’t even had that many rejections because I don’t bother if they’re clearly not interested….
How Can I Help My Fiancé Manage His Anxiety?
Hello Doc Sorry if this is a little long, just want to give enough background information… (hopefully?) I met my fiancé using an online dating app at the start of the pandemic. I hadn’t dated in around a decade and was scared to date again but saw the pandemic as a good excuse to not…
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How Do I Go From Being an FWB to A Boyfriend?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m (m/24) a reader for the last few years and I never expected to actually have a question for you but I guess I do now. I’ve got a girl (f/22) I’ve been seeing for a while and things are going ok and I know what you’re going to say so yes…
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Is My Boyfriend’s Ex Trying to Steal Him From Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I had been exclusive with my boyfriend for more than a half year now. As usual, our first months were very smooth. However, just after some months as well, we started to have some trust issues. He happened to make me insecure consciously. For instance, when we we partied, he came to…
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Should I Leave My Girlfriend For An Old Flame?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I am a 21y old male (Brazilian, so please forgive any bad English) and I have been dating a girl (I’ll be calling her A) for the past 3 and a half years. She is a very special person and I care very deeply for her. She is probably the sweetest person…
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