Love, Sex and Dating For The Modern Nerd
Hi Doc- I (m/30s) have a complicated question. There is someone I work with, let’s call her B, who I have become attracted to. We have worked together for about 8 months. We work at a college, in an office setting though, not a classroom. I am a professional staff member, B is a graduate…
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Dear Dr NerdLove A while back after turning 18, I became extremely self conscious of the fact that I was a complete and utter virgin beta loser. I was skinny fat, unassertive, unattractive and I coped with this by using porn to dull my testosterone and video games to distract myself from reality. Eventually though,…
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Dear Dr NerdLove, I am crying as I write this, and I’m very grateful if you received and read this email. I’m an 18-year-old girl who grew up in a conservative background from an LEDC. I dress very modestly, always wearing long dresses, and I even opt for long skirts instead of jeans when I…
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Doctor’s Note: Today’s column deals with trans issues and trans identities. Because of the nature of the topic I will be riding hard on the comments. Misunderstandings and sincere attempts to learn are understandable. Misgendering, perpetuating negative propaganda about trans people and general TERF bullshit will mean getting the banhammer. Dr NerdLove, My husband and…
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Hey Doc – I’m sure you receive a ton of questions every day, but I am going to try to ask one that is worth your time. I was very happily “blue pilled,” if just being a normal dude and holding normal belief about dating can be called that, for the first 19 or so…
Dear Dr. NerdLove: What’s the best way to tell someone they need to take better care of themselves? My brother, S, is a lovely person who will help anyone in a crisis. He once drove 5 hours to help me move, even though I definitely didn’t ask him to do that. The bad thing is…
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