Hey Doc, I’m sorry in advance that this is long, but I feel like it’s complicated. I’m writing to you because you’re a man and you primarily advise men, and I know there’s all kinds of cultural baggage around men’s sexuality and treating it as predatory, and I don’t want to hurt my male friends…
Archives for November 2022
How Do I Learn To Be Vulnerable and Open Up To Others?
Howdy Doc, I’ve been reading your blogs and watching your videos for a few months now, and would like your input on something. So, I’m a guy who struggles with vulnerability and opening up. Yeah, I know. Super original. Right up there with Villains Wear Black and Elf with a Bow. My social skills are…
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Can I Learn To Love My Body?
Hya Doc I’ve been reading your column for quite a while and it’s been helping me out alot lately but if feels like I just ran into a brick wall regarding my progress. I’m a Cis dude, an older virgin (another mark of shame that’ll come up later) in his mid 20s who’s pretty much…
Help, I’m Jealous of My Girlfriend’s Online Friend
Hey Doc, I’m a 31-year-old straight man who’s been dating a 38-year-old bi woman for about 5 months. Despite our age difference we feel like we are on exactly the same level. We’re both weird, awkward turbonerds with a ton of obscure interests in common, we both struggle with mental illness and got a late…
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How Do I Date When I Have A Disability?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve followed your column for a while now and noticed how much of what you say of being in a good place for a relationship matches with what I was always told growing up. Basically, have interests and a life of your own, be emotionally and mentally stable(ish) so that you don’t…
How Do I Build Chemistry With The Women I Date?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Near the end of the summer, one of my friends really pushed me to try online dating after he met his then-gf. At the tail end of August, I created a Hinge profile and to my surprise I was getting matches within a week. A lot of women were drawn to my…
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