One of the topics that comes up the most often when it comes to dating advice is, paradoxically, the one that folks get wrong the most often: “what do women find attractive in men?” This is an evergreen subject (ahem), in no small part because of how often guys buy into mistaken ideas about what…
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What Does It Mean To Be Strong?
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be strong, lately. Not in the physical sense, but what it means to be emotionally and mentally strong. The idea that people today — men especially — are “weaker” or “can’t handle it” is tossed around with gleeful abandon. In fact, the underlying conflict of Cobra…
5 Ways to Build An Amazing Life in 2021
It’s not really a stretch to say that 2020 was one of the most challenging years in living memory for… well, pretty much any of us. But it was also an unprecedented and uniquely difficult year for relationships — for single people and for folks who were coupled up or in poly relationships. People who…
Episode #152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD
Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do without a second thought. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why. Now, after a lifetime of…
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How To Unlearn What You Have Learned
One of the hardest things you can do — that anyone can do, really — is to try to unlearn something. Especially something that you aren’t even aware that you’ve learned. This sounds like an impossibility; how can you have learned something without being aware of having learned it? But in practice, it’s like the old David…
Why Can’t He Stop Worrying About Being A Creeper?
Hey Doc, Whenever I see women I’m attracted to, I often get in my head. Like, I start to think about how I could talk to her, but often, there’s some reason I shouldn’t, like she’s talking to someone else. And that gets me in my head to the point that even if something happens…
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