Hey Doc! I have a problem that basically boils down to “unfortunately this guy I’m seeing hasn’t found your books and columns yet,” but of course the situation is a little more nuanced than that. I’m in my late 30’s and have been in several medium to long term relationships. I’ve mostly met men online…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is She Pushing Me Into A Relationship?
Hey Doc, Longtime listener, first time caller. I (35M) am about one month out of a two-and-a-half year relationship. We part on good terms, we just realized we weren’t a good longer-term fit. The part that made me a bad fit was that I was so immersed in my career and hobbies that she felt…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Want to Date Younger Women. What Should I Do?
Hi Doc, Thanks for all the hard work and great articles, lots of great advice which has helped in the past – your book New Game+ has been a huge benefit to me. My question is a quick one, around how sexual desire changes when you get older. I’ll hold my hands up and say…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do I Do About A “Missing Stair”?
Hey Doc, I have a bit of an ongoing issue with someone who I think is a ‘missing stair’. About a year and a half ago, I met this guy through a sports team I’m in and we became acquainted but not close. He had a reputation as a ‘gutter-punk’ type who’d steal your cigarettes…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Are We More Than Just Friends?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I have a friend that I’ve known since college and we’ve kept in contact well after I graduated. However, due to our own responsibilities, we had times when we wouldn’t contact each other for months at a time. But when we did reconnect, it was almost like that hiatus never happened. I…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Wrong To Be Jealous of His Ex?
Hey Doc, I (29F) have been dating my boyfriend (32M) for almost a year and I’m jealous of the relationship he has with his ex. He texts with his ex all day and he tells me they are just really good friends. They rarely hang out in person. This woman has been in his life…
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