Doc, I got a question for you, what the hell is there to do in the real world? I say this as I’ve been getting more active in talking to women (albeit at the checkout line but it’s a start) and doing some online dating. Basically, I have absolutely no idea of what to do…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Turn A Friend Down?
Hey Doc, A few days back, my girlfriend bumped into someone she knew from school but hadn’t connected to since at the subway stop. They chatted for a bit, and then her train came. To her surprise, the guy got on the train with her despite the fact that it was not going in the…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
Hi Dr. NerdLove – My husband wants to experiment in BDSM play, specifically being dominated. I’m on board with this but he either won’t or can’t tell me what he wants. I’ve tried suggesting different ideas but he says no to all of them. I think he hope that I’ll just do some stuff that…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Shouldn’t I Take The Red Pill?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been through an ordeal that is really tempting me to swallow the red or black pill. My girlfriend of nearly a year dumped me. She said I was too nice, a pushover, cute but not sexy, and she wants to see other people. So she dumped me, but later tried to…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Keep My Anxiety Under Control?
Hey Doc, I’ve been reading your blog for about half a year now, as well as your new book on surviving relationships, and I gotta thank you for your pearls of wisdom, you’ve led me from not knowing the first thing about flirting to being in my first real relationship. Which is where I’m at…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did Someone Sabotage My Date?
Hi Doc- I’ve written you before and found your advice to be quite helpful! I have a situational question today and would love your eyes on it. I recently connected with someone I’ve met briefly in the past over a dating app and hit off the conversation with her. Let’s call her Alpha. We set up a…
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