Doctor, I need your help,
I realize this is going to make me seem like a piece of shit, but whatever. I’ve been married for almost 2 years now, and I find myself with a crush on my coworker. I don’t know how to process this. I know workplace crushes are fairly common, but this is my first crush since I’ve been married. I’m not tempted to leave my wife or anything, but I do find myself flirting with the coworker enough that I would probably feel guilty if my wife saw it if she were to ever drop by my office unannounced. We’re coworkers, so there aren’t any weird supervisor-employee power dynamics at play. What, if any, advice can you give?