How often do you wish that getting laid was easier? Do you regularly wonder why some men get all the luck while you’re stuck home alone on the weekends? What if I told you that there was one mistake you were making – one that most men make, in fact – that is keeping you from…
Communication
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Comfortable Talking About Sex?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, I’m a 21 year old guy from the UK and I’ve been reading your site for about a year and a half. During that time I’m happy to say I’ve made some great improvements to my life; I’ve become conscious about my diet and started working out with a friend, have been…
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #29 – How To Talk So People Will Listen
Living an interesting life is makes you a more interesting, attractive person, but you need to be able to share those experiences. And that means knowing how to convey them in ways that keep people interested. We’ve all encountered people who are in love with the sound of their own voice and talk endlessly or who…
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The Art of Sexting (Without Being A Creeper)
Sexting tends to get a bad rap. When we hear about sexting, it tends to be in the context of politicians cheating on their spouses or randos trying to slide into a woman’s DMs like… But despite the negative buzz, sexting is a valuable form of flirting with the people you’re dating. More powerful than passively…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Overcome The Bitterness?
Doc, I’ll get to the point: I feel like a loser. In addition to student loans, a bad credit score, not being able to drive properly, living with my overbearing mother, I’m bitter over being single and rejected. Yeah I know its my fault. I’m almost 23 and Ive never had a girlfriend. I was fat…
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Can Consent Be Sexy?
“I think it’s ridiculous to ask your sexual partner for consent every 6 seconds.” I had this discussion thread on Twitter forwarded to me recently. It’s part and parcel of what happens whenever the idea of consent is brought up on social media. Whenever we talk about the concept of enthusiastic consent – that is,…