Greetings Doctor, I have been reading the material on your blog for a while now. I really appreciate finding someone who knows so much about how it is like to be me. I am a 41 year old man who has a bad case of oneitis (co-dependent obsession) since I was still a teen. I…
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The 5 Most Common Insecurities In Men (And How To Overcome Them)
It should come as no surprise that confidence is a big deal when it comes to success at dating. Confidence, after all, is sexy. The problem of course, is that confidence can be hard to come by. Confidence boosting is a big-money industry these days. Even the Pick-Up Artist community is flooded with products designed…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Night and Day
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m a geek gamer girl. I’m dating a geek gamer boy. I use the terms girl and boy loosely since we are in our thirties. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months. This particular relationship is kind of an experiment, since neither of us were looking to be trapped…
5 Common Sexual Mishaps (And How To Recover From Them)
There’s nothing quite like sex to set every man’s anxieties on overdrive. Men are competitive about everything. If a guy is into a subject or a hobby, he wants to believe that he is the master of it – if not of the world, than at least amongst his friends. Whether it’s cooking, grilling, video games…
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Build Your Confidence
Everyone will tell you: “Confidence is sexy.” This is all well and good, but that murky self-help language doesn’t really do anything to tell you how to build confidence, does it? Sure, it’s fine to just tell someone “hey, be more confident and the women will just start flocking to you”, but as many of you know,…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Love Hurts
Doc: I’m the nice guy, and I managed to score an amazing girlfriend. Just a few quick notes about me: I don’t watch porn, I don’t enjoy it. I’m about as monogamous as you can get, and when I’m in a relationship, thats who I focus on. To put it in perspective, I’m about as much of…