If you want to improve at dating, you need to quit looking at success stories. Instead, you need to study mistakes. You need to make more mistakes. Most people do. In fact, that’s one of the biggest problems I see among young men. They’re afraid of mistakes. They’re afraid to fail. But mistakes are important… in fact,…
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Level Up: Facing Your Dating Fears
I want to talk to you about fear – especially the fears I see crop up around dating. Success in dating, after all, is 80% internal, 10% external presentation and 10% skill. When you want to improve your dating life, you have to start working from the inside out. This includes dealing with your dating fears….
Making Your Long Distance Relationship Last
Relationships can be tricky to maintain under the best of circumstances. Long distance relationships, on the other hand, are even harder. When you and your partner are hundreds or thousands of miles apart then you’re dealing with new levels of difficulty. Long distance relationships are increasingly common these days as jobs and school make us increasingly…
Build Up Your Emotional Resilience
When it comes to improving your dating life, there’s one thing that will help you more than anything else: emotional resilience. Emotional resilience, put simply, your ability to withstand, adapt and overcome adversity. It’s what lets you stare rejection in the face and not let it break you. When everything is feels like it’s going…
How To Handle Dealbreakers
Every relationship is a matter of compromise. Nobody gets 100% of what they want in a partner; you get anywhere from 60% – 90% and round up because they’re just that worth it. But while some things on our dating wish-list are “It would be nice if,” others are “must haves” and still more are…
Discover Your Style
Clothes are an important part of one’s identity. They serve as an outward expression of your innermost self. Want to tell people who you are? Dress appropriately. But if you want to stand out in a way that gets you attention that you want? Then you want to develop your sense of style. The difference between fashion…