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#117 – How To Be Instantly Magnetic To Women

July 3, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Charisma and personal magnetism aren’t about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It’s about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can’t. Understand how to build the right connections with people and amazing women won’t be able to stop thinking about you… instead of someone else.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • What the story of one man’s failure teaches us about personal magnetism and charisma
  • Why your presentation matters more than your looks
  • How your body language affects your connection with others
  • Why intensity and authenticity is so important
  • What most men get wrong about being cool, popular and desirable

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Ways To Be More Charismatic… Instantly

Find Your Swagger

The Value of Authenticity

5 Secrets To Being Make People Like You

How To Be Charming

5 Rules For Instantly Upgrading Your Style

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Episode #115 -The Secret to Successful Flirting

June 6, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Flirting with amazing women is far less complicated or difficult than people think it is. Here’s the secret.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • Why we rarely recognize flirting when we see it
  • The key to finding your flirting style
  • What makes the difference between conversation and flirting
  • How to make women become addicted to you
  • An underused secret technique for successful flirting

…and so much more

RELATED LINKS:

How To Use Humor In Your Flirting

The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive

The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man (Isn’t Looks or Money)

Fix Your Flirting

How To Tell Amazing Stories

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Episode #100 – Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?

November 21, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How do you tell the difference between when someone’s flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others
  • Why “Straight Dude Thinking” gets in the way of flirting success
  • Why we confuse parasocial relationships for genuine interest
  • How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you
  • The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested… and not just being friendly.

 

RELATED LINKS:

  • Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s the Difference Between Flirting and Just Being Friendly?
  • Read Her Signs (Without Reading The Tea Leaves)
  • Fix Your Flirting
  • How To Get Women To Approach You
  • 5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #51 – 5 Steps To Creating An Instant Connection

October 26, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 31 Comments

Do you have have that friend who seems to just connect with people. They can roll up on strangers and end up with new best friends and dates. And you… can’t.

It doesn’t seem fair, does it? These people can stumble into any social situation and come out like they rolled 18 on their charisma and then there’s you: the unfrozen caveman who suddenly doesn’t know how to word gooder. To make matters worse: you could do and say the exact same thing that they do and get blank stares. 

It’s not because they have “it” and you don’t. It’s because of charismatic people understand why we like others and how to create that connection. And you can learn how to create it as well.

Show Highlights:

  • The #1 mistake people make in trying to forge a connection with others
  • The most important part of building your social skills
  • How your beliefs shape your ability to connect with others
  • Why you’re ruining your own efforts to get other people to like you
  • The single factor that will make you more appealing and desirable than anyone else

…and so much more.

Related Links:

5 Ways To Be More Charismatic, Instantly

How To Be Charming

5 Secrets To Make People Like You

Be More Approachable

The Most Attractive Aspect of A Man (Isn’t Looks or Money)


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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #50 – The Truth Behind “Secret” Seduction Techniques

October 19, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 129 Comments

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Do you want to learn the secret to getting amazing, beautiful women to fall in love with you? You probably hear about these tricks all the time from experts and gurus. And you’re probably thinking “yeah right, this could never work”.

And that’s where you’re right. But not for the reasons you think. Those seduction techniques work alright… but it’s all about who it’s working on and how. This week, we’re going to talk about the short cuts and magic bullets marketed to lonely men and who’s actually doing the seducing.

Show Highlights:

  • What’s the story behind all those affiliate marketing emails?
  • The history of “mind-control” in the seduction community
  • Marketing panic attacks as a tool for seduction
  • Who’s actually seducing whom
  • Why magic feathers and secret seduction techniques are bad for everyone

…and so much more.

Related Links:

Short Cuts and Magic Bullets

The Economics of Sex

Five Secrets To Fix Your Love Life

Leveling Up: How To Get Women To Approach You

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret to Real Self-Improvement


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