I have a friend of mine, an attractive woman slightly younger than me, whom I have known almost literally all of our lives. She is very much in the mold of “the younger sister I never wanted”, and we’ve always been close. So as one of her surrogate older brothers, I have frequently been in the position to watch her various relationships come and go over the years. Much to her eternal surprise and wonderment, I could always, always predict which guy she was always going to end up dating, with 100% accuracy.
It wasn’t any particular psychic insight, nor was it a tendency to date a specific “type”.
No, her every relationship inevitably would start with the phrase “So we just had the most incredible conversation.”
You may look like Ryan Gosling with Brad Pitt’s smile, Ryan Reynold’s abs and Bill Gates’ paycheck. You may have insight in how to be more attractive to women.
But if you can’t carry on a conversation with the women you meet, you’ll be going nowhere fast.