I have a bit of a complication and I was hoping that the good doctor might help me out. I’ve never considered myself a creeper, or ‘that guy’. I’m a geek yes, a nerd even, hell I make a living drawing cartoons. I’m not a virgin, and I don’t have a confidence issue talking with girls or knowing when not to. What I do have is an image issue, or rather what I perceive as one.
As you may have guessed by the title I don’t wear pants. I wear a variety of Utility Kilts, mixed in with tank tops, tattoos, and mid back length hair. I like my look, but I feel that it’s getting in the way of me charming a girl if they think I’m a metal head before I get a word in edgewise. Perhaps I’m not looking in the right places? Should I change the look I am happy with to increase my chances of getting a date or should I keep the kilted image and hope there’s a girl out there who’s not put off by it?