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Now, Back To The Question At Hand
Hopefully you’re still reading this as opposed to running for the hills, SC Geek, because it’s time to look at exactly what’s going on in your situation.
Contrary to popular opinion, strippers will occasionally ask clients for their number or to give their number out … just usually to her regulars so that she can encourage them to come see her while she’s working. In a world of Google Voice, prepaid cellphones and caller-ID it’s easy enough to have one line specifically for clients and one for her personal life, so getting a number from a stripper doesn’t necessarily mean that she likes you.
But in this case… well, I’m willing to give her the benefit of the doubt.
To start with, you say she called you… and evidently just to chat, rather than to tell you to that she’d be working on Tuesday and you should totally come get some dances. And then she asked you out to dinner. Again, it’s usually the customer who’s begging the stripper for a date. This is also a point in her favor.
I’ve known strippers socially; there was a time that I would bring my sketchbook to stripclubs in order to do life-drawings… the cover charge was usually cheaper than model fees and occasionally I could make some money doing portraits or tattoo designs. There were several girls that I talked to who were genuinely sweet girls and were fun to talk to and hang out with on occasion. It sounds like your friend may well be of that type.
Is she just after you for your money? Well, she could be; she does work in an industry that encourages women to use a fantasy in order to get money. But as long as you keep your head about you, there’s really no reason not to go have dinner with her. Just proceed with extreme caution; there are plenty of women – not just strippers or dancers – who will manipulate a man’s good nature for her own benefit.
And read over what I said; she may not be a stripper forever, but she is one now, and that’s a lifestyle that comes with a whole host of issues. If you are even slightly put off by any of it, you aren’t stripper boyfriend material. You’d be doing yourself a favor by keeping things on a provider-customer basis and leaving the relationship in the club, where it belongs. Otherwise you’ll just be inviting stress and heartbreak into your life and hers.
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