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Episode #101 – This is Why You Can’t Get Over Her

November 28, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Friends, do you suffer from uncontrollable longing for someone who barely knows you’re alive? Are you unable to get over that break up, even after months or years? Do you have the sinking feeling that nobody in the world could be as right for you or mean as much as she does? Are you afraid that this was your last chance for true love?

Then you may suffer from a disease known as Oneitis. Symptoms include heart palpitations, hopelessness, anxiety, terminal loneliness, embarrassing Spotify playlists, failed romantic relationships and a tendency to seek out pornstars that look like your ex. But there is hope! Stay tuned for a special offer that’s guaranteed to cure your oneitis… Today!

Show Highlights:

  • Why it’s so hard to get over an ex
  •  What we get wrong about Oneitis
  •  How to understand why you can’t get over her
  •  Why you need to practice some radical forgiveness
  •  How learning to get over your ex can make your relationships better

… and so much more.

Related Links:

Eliminating Neediness

How To Develop An Abundance Mentality

Do You Suffer From Oneitis

How To Get Over Her

Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

The Wrong Way To Get Your Ex Back

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