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Episode #96 – This Is Why You Fail

October 24, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How often has the frustration of being single gotten to you? How many times have you asked yourself: why aren’t you going to get any better? Why do other people find love and you don’t? Why aren’t you able to build the life that you want to live and be the man you dream about being? It’s time to talk about the reason why so many guys won’t find a girlfriend or lover… and what you can do to avoid their mistake.

Show Highlights: 

  • What is the Negativity Bias and why does it ruin your social success?
  • Why so many men choose pain over love
  • Why we believe that truth has to hurt
  • How men’s anxieities cause them to self-destruct
  • How to build the strength you need to keep going

…and so much more.

Related Links:

What Is Toxic Masculinity? – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/what-is-toxic-masculinity/

Build Your Emotional Resilience – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/build-emotional-resilience/

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/your-attitude-controls-your-dating-success/

The Only Thing In The Way of Social Success – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/only-thing-in-way-success/

Redefining Failure – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/redefining-failure/

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