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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #35 – Overcoming Negativity

June 29, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 20 Comments

This week, it’s time for a little tough love. Some of this may sting. Some of it may be upsetting… but it’s going to be important. And if you stick through the end, you’re going to have some tools that’ll make things better.

Instead of talking about the things you should be doing… I want to talk about the thing that you’re doing that you desperately need to stop… because it’s killing your love life.

Show Highlights:

  • How one simple test reveals how your attitude hurts your love life.
  • Why you’re not as good at hiding your negative side as you think.
  • How a negative attitude pushes people away – even the people who like you.
  • Why pessimism makes it impossible to improve. 
  • The difference a positive or negative attitude makes to a first impression.

…and so much more

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Self Acceptance, Self-Improvement and Why You Need Both

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