Hello Doc, This is how my mind works when I see an attractive woman I want to talk to: “Hey, my coworker is pretty cute. I wish I could get to know her more.” “She’s in a different department, how could I talk to her?” “If I were to go up to her for no…
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5 Mistakes That Men Make Approaching Women
So, I have a confession to make: I have a perverse love of weird, dumb or just plain batshit dating advice that gets passed around like golden nuggets of wisdom. This means that Twitter is a bonanza of bullshit to comb through for laughs that range from “wait, this has to be fake” to “oh God you’re…
Men, This Is Why You THINK You’re Ugly
So, I’m gonna do something a little different today. There’re some letters I get over and over again. Not from the same person, but variations on an incredibly common theme. There are some letters and topics that come up so often with the same insecurities, often using identical language, that it seems pretty obvious they’re…
5 Harsh Truths About Dating (And What You Can Do About It)
I want to tell you some harsh truths about dating. Truths that, when you understand them, will explain why dating can be a nightmare. However, once you’re able to face those truths, you’ll find that dating will actually be simpler and more enjoyable. And the key to understanding them starts with gambling and religious pigeons….
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Why Won’t My Husband Treat His Mental Illness?
Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I first want to express my appreciation for the work you do in helping people become their best versions of themselves. I saw one of your YouTube videos explaining your journey with diagnosis and treatment of ADHD, so I’m hoping you can give me some insight into what my husband is going…
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How Do I Date (Safely) During COVID?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I was hoping to get your opinion on a concern of mine. I am in my mid thirties and foolishly waited until mere months before a global pandemic to start getting serious about living life and as pertains to your specialty, looking for love. I wasn’t especially concerned as things kicked off,…