Hi Doc! How do allosexual folks who relate to some elements of demisexuality date in an honest way without beating around the bush or waiting too long? Without getting too lost in labels, I am 30 year old male on the neurodiverse spectrum (both ADHD and ASD) and I relate to labels such as demisexuality,…
approach anxiety
5 Mistakes That Men Make Approaching Women
So, I have a confession to make: I have a perverse love of weird, dumb or just plain batshit dating advice that gets passed around like golden nuggets of wisdom. This means that Twitter is a bonanza of bullshit to comb through for laughs that range from “wait, this has to be fake” to “oh God you’re…
5 Mistakes That Push People Away
How many times has this happened to you: you’ve decided that you’re going to be more social, so you commit to going out more and meeting people in person. However, every time you go out, the night ends the same way: with you going home alone, feeling lower than a snake’s ass in a drainage…
How Do I Know I Won’t Be Forever Alone?
Hi Dr. NerdLove. I appreciate your sane advice for dating, especially in this age. Unfortunately I have recently got into a bit of a rut as I am trying to improve my non-existent dating life. Forgive me for my bad grammar as English is not my first language. The best way for me to explain…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is This The Best Way To Get Out Of The Friend Zone?
Hey Doc, hope this finds you well. I’m a 33 year old man and I’m writing with regards to a recent experience with a girl who has placed me seemingly firmly in the Friend Zone. I’d like your insight and suggestions as to what best course of action may be, as I’m aware that anything…
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Am I Masculine Enough To Be A “Real” Man?
Hi Doc, I guess I have questions… or maybe thoughts? It’s complicated. I’m a cis gay man. I think? I think that’s a part of it. I wish I was more masculine. I feel like my life would have been a lot easier if I had been… that it would be easier in the future…