Hey Doc, So I’m 31, nonbinary, and somewhere between demisexual and non-sex-repulsed ace on the asexuality spectrum. I was in a long-term relationship off and on (mostly on) from 2009-2018, before we finally admitted to each other that our life trajectories were heading in diverging directions and our incompatibilities (primarily that we’re two very different…
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I’m Not Broken, So Why Do Men Keep Trying to Fix Me?
Hello Doc! Long time reader first time writer. Your column has hit really close to home many times and I figured it couldn’t hurt to get your take on my situation. I am a hyper-independent female with a relatively active social life and am good with the opposite sex and dating. Sounds great right? Where’s…
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How Do I Date When I’m Not Attracted To Other People?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m currently struggling with dating (who would have thought) and specifically with how i could meet someone that I can form a romantic connection with. I’m a 24 Year old Dude, never been in a relationship, never been on a date, helpless as to why I’ve only ever gotten negative response, blabla,…
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Am I Supposed To Be Angry At My Husband Over Our Sex Life?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, I have a husband that I recently married and I love him dearly. We both have autism and have dated eight years before we got married and he wanted to wait until marriage which I was totally fine with. As a demisexual, it took me three years to even want to…
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What Do I Do About My Sexless Relationship?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is so caring and thoughtful. He is affectionate and always finding ways to show me he loves me. He splits household responsibilities with me 50/50 and is in many ways my ideal partner, with one exception. My boyfriend has ED….
Why Am I So Indecisive About Dating?
Hello, Doc. I’m a long time reader (male, straight) who has been following your site on and off since high school; currently, I am in my mid 20s, with no dating or sexual experience. This doesn’t bother me, per se. At the risk of sounding cocky, I am fairly certain I could date and so…