He has everything women say they want. People think he’s incredibly popular and has no problem getting dates. So why is he still single?
ask her out already
Is My Boyfriend’s Ex Trying to Steal Him From Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I had been exclusive with my boyfriend for more than a half year now. As usual, our first months were very smooth. However, just after some months as well, we started to have some trust issues. He happened to make me insecure consciously. For instance, when we we partied, he came to…
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When Do You Tell A Woman You Like Her?
Hi Doc! How do allosexual folks who relate to some elements of demisexuality date in an honest way without beating around the bush or waiting too long? Without getting too lost in labels, I am 30 year old male on the neurodiverse spectrum (both ADHD and ASD) and I relate to labels such as demisexuality,…
How Do I Get Over A Relationship That Never Started?
Hi Dr. NerdLove! First I just want to say that I love what you do and am so grateful for everything that you do for the community! This is my first time posting, and I feel stupid for still being lovesick, since I’ve talked about this issue to so many people and even read and…
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What’s The Right Way To Ask Someone Out?
Hi Dr. NerdLove: First of all, I’m really glad that I found you at a time when I decided to get out of my bubble and open myself to relationships and all other possibilities. I’m 22, and frankly, I haven’t dated before. I realize I was in a cocoon for so long, and I’m from…
How Do I Learn To Love Myself?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: A common truism you hear a lot about dating is “You have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. I’m bringing that up so I can tie dating to something I want to pick your brain on, which is about self-love. I find the messaging around how one…