One of the hardest things about self-improvement, especially when you’re trying to fix your dating life, is feeling like you’re getting nowhere. Now to be fair, change takes time and more often than not, you’re trying to overcome the habits of a lifetime… but that’s cold comfort when you can see that new life waiting…
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Redefining Failure
I’m a failure. And I’m ok with that. There are a lot of things I’ve failed at. I’m a failure as a professional artist and photographer. I’m a failure as a comic publisher. I’m sure you could probably find plenty of women in my past who would quite happily tell you that I’m a failure…
Be The Greatest Lover She’s Ever Known
Considering that we live in a post Sex And The City world, where vibrator sales are the new Tupperware parties and women are more empowered than ever to pursue their own sexual pleasure, it’s tempting to think that men and women have finally leveled the playing field when it comes to casual sex. Women are…
Guest Post: Surviving Alone
[Doctor’s Note: Today we’ve got a special guest post from friend of the blog and occasional contributor Karen! Today, we’re talking about how to handle the hard times, when it seems like love is only for other people and dry-spells that may last for years. How do you keep your sanity and your soul intact? Well, Karen’s…
The Appeal of “Bad Boys”
If there is one thing that men, especially nerdy, geekier men – men more prone to be Nice Guys and White Knights – will complain about when it comes to their dating problems, it’s that women don’t like “nice” men. No, frustrating the millions of men who heard “I wish I could meet a nice guy like…
Who Controls You?
I want you to think about control for a moment. Are you the sort of person who believes in fate and destiny? Or are you the sort of person who believes in consequences? Fate is an attractive thing to believe in; there’s a certain comfort to be found in believing that there is something that…