He’s autistic and social skills are challenging for him at best. Without looks to fall back on, does he stand a chance of ever finding a date?
autism spectrum
How Do I Finally Start Dating?
He’s 39, on the spectrum, lives with his parents and still a virgin. How can he get over this late start and finally start dating?
How Do I Know I’m Not Becoming An Incel?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: First off, I’ve been following you for a while and, as far as I’m concerned, nobody else on the internet can destigmatize male virginity as well as you can. With that said, I think that the line between an incel and a sexually frustrated men is very thin, and all over the…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: I’m Worried Women Will Think I’m Creepy
Hi Doc, whenever I’m out and see someone that I like, the three man things that come to my head are: 1. “She probably been asked out by many guys, better not bother her like the others” 2. “She is just being nice and I’ll just make it weird, better not bother her”. 3. “I…
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My Brother’s An Incel and I Don’t Know What To Do…
Hi Doc, I’m hoping you can help. Recently my brother and I got into an argument. I was talking about the new Zack Snyder’s Netflix film Army of the Dead and my brother mentioned he did not like said director. When I asked why he brought up that the YouTube channel Geeks and Gamers had…
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What Do I Tell People Who Think My Relationships Is “Not Normal”?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Outside observers have commented that my relationship with my boyfriend seems unhealthily weird, however to me it feels like a good (though unusual) fit. I suspect my boyfriend might have schizoid personality disorder – so am I fooling myself that this is even possible? Background: We’ve been dating for over 5 years. My boyfriend…
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