Hello Dr. Nerdlove I am currently in a friends with benefits situation with a girl I met on Tinder. I have been single for about 5 years now and this is my second try at the friends with benefits situation. I have to say, so far, I don’t think I’m wired to be in this…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Think My Girlfriend’s Cheating On Me
Hey Doc, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 Years now, through a lot. But something changed recently and I can’t tell whether I should be worried or not. A few weeks ago, she seemed to completely shut down on me. We went from daily cuddling and laughter and intimacy to…nothing. She wouldn’t talk to…
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How To Get Over Her
Breakups and rejection are an inevitable part of dating. It doesn’t matter whether you’re absurdly hot or not, whether you’ve never had a date in your life or your social life puts Hugh Hefner’s to shame; you’re going to get your heart broken at some point or another. You’re going to be miserable. You’re going to…
Why It’s So Hard To Break Up With Someone (Even When You Need To)
Occasionally, I’ll get an email from a reader who isn’t asking for advice so much as they are asking for permission. And nine times out of ten, what they’re asking for is permission to break up with their significant other… because they can’t manage to convince themselves that they need to. One of the most perverse aspects of being…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Kobiyashi Maru’d
Dear Dr. NerdLove, My situation is probably like many you’ve heard, but I’m hoping you give me some advice on what I’m doing right/wrong. I got engaged in July to a girl I had been dating for two-and-a-half years only to have her breakup with me just a couple months later. She cited a litany…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: A Nerd In Wolf’s Clothing
Ay Doc, This is kinda weird for me writing into a website an all, but when you need help… you need help. I’ve been dating this girl for three months and we have our fair share of fighting and our fair share of sex. If we’re not doing either of those we’re kinda nothing. She…