Hey Doc, This is gonna be a long one so I apologize in advance for that. I’ve been having some strong resentful feelings for my ex and I can’t seem to get over him. Let me explain. At the start of last year I (m) started seeing a guy who I had a huge crush…
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Did I Just Ruin My Life For Sex?
Hello. I’m a man in my 30s with next to none sexual experience. There are various reasons for my lack of experience, but I think the main reason is that I’m far too picky, when you consider my own attractiveness. The lack of sex in my life has bothered me quite frequently, and the only reason…
Help, My Ex Has Gotten Engaged And I Don’t Know How To Handle It
Hey Doc, First off, thanks so much for what you provide here. I know it’s centered around dating and relationship advice, but as far as I can tell, it’s just as much about being an actual decent person. I hope you appreciate your work as much as I do. I suppose the best way to…
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Episode #135 —The 5 Things You Need To Get Over A Breakup
The reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental and physical. When you’re struggling with how to get over your breakup, you’re almost never handling BOTH halves of the equation. Getting over…
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Why Am I Still Not Over My Ex?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m a 21 year old guy just about to finish college. During my freshman year, I met this wonderful girl (call her Alpha) – beautiful, smart, funny, everything one could hope for. She was in a relationship when we met, but it ended soon after. She was available, we got along swimmingly,…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is It OK To Be Friends With My Wife’s Ex?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m writing to you in hopes of receiving your impartial insight into a particularly tricky personal situation. My wife (Alpha) and I just celebrated our 5th anniversary, although prior to getting married we’d already been in a long-term committed relationship that had culminated in living together. There’s one troublesome long-standing issue that’s…
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