Hey Dr Nerdlove, I have a bit of a situation (who doesn’t). It involves a very good friend of mine and two girls (I’m a dude btw). I’ve expressed a very strong interest for one of the girls to my ‘good friend.’ He said he’ll help me out with the girl (wingmanning I guess) but…
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The Problem With Neediness (Or: The Anti-Sex Equation)
There’s a recurring thread I’ve seen lately online, whether it’s in the comments here or in a few of the other forae where I lurk: an increasing sense of desperation for a relationship. As we’re running headlong into the holiday season, it’s only natural for the singletons amongst us to look around at all of…
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Take Responsibility
I’ve talked a little before about how my life was back in the bad old days when my idea of wooing a woman was to follow her around like a newly hatched gosling in the hopes that she might somehow turn around and see all the amazingness I had to offer. I had all sorts of…
The Social Resistance To Change
The only sure path to improving your dating life is to improve yourself. But what happens when nobody else seems to notice these changes? Going from the sad sack loser – an “average frustrated chump” in PUA parlance – to being someone who was confident and at ease with himself and who actually was skilled…
Flirting With Intent – Advanced Flirting for Nerd Women Pt. 2
Dr. NerdLove is on vacation this week. Rather than just giving you nothing but dead air or running a “Best Of” column, I bring you this excellent guest post from my friend, confidant and occasional provider of much needed corrections: Kira. When we left off on Part 1, we were talking about how to flirt…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Love Is A Contact Sport
Dr. NerdLove is on vacation this week, so we’re keeping things short and sweet. Besides, sometimes a question doesn’t require a dissertation in response… Dear Dr.Nerdlove, I seek your guidance. I’m 18 years old going on 19 in college and I’ve just experienced my first crush. Before I go on keep in mind. I’m somewhat…