Dear Dr. NerdLove, I found you on Google and I had some questions: 1: why is it my husband always tells me I’m not attracted to him (even tho I’m always touching and loving on him and telling him he’s handsome and so on) 2: why does my husband constantly start a fight to try…
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My Hobbies are Ruining My Marriage. What Do I Do?
Doctor NerdLove, I’m a longtime reader, first time submitter, writing because of concerns about my marriage. My wife and I have been married for four years. We have a child together at this point, we own a house together, and I thought things were going pretty well. That was until my wife recently came forward…
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We Haven’t Had Sex in Months. Is My Husband Cheating On Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, My husband and I (he’s a straight man and I’m a bi woman) have been together for 25 years, and most of the time I see him as the best partner possible. Loving, kind, thoughtful, funny, and a wonderful father. Where things aren’t so great is our sex life. Up until last…
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Why Won’t My Husband Treat His Mental Illness?
Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I first want to express my appreciation for the work you do in helping people become their best versions of themselves. I saw one of your YouTube videos explaining your journey with diagnosis and treatment of ADHD, so I’m hoping you can give me some insight into what my husband is going…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Ask My Friends To STOP Helping?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, People want me to be an incel, but in a positive, feminine way. How do I get them to stop? This isn’t so much a dating question as it is a how do I deal with people who think I should be dating problem. Well meaning people love telling me that I’m…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Our Sex Life?
Hey Doc, I’ve been dating a particular woman (call her L) for over a month now. We’re pretty interested in each other, and if things continue like this, we’ll likely be in an official relationship soon. So far, so good, right? With many other women, we’ve had sex by the 5th date. With L, we’ve…
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