Hey Doc, So I’m 31, nonbinary, and somewhere between demisexual and non-sex-repulsed ace on the asexuality spectrum. I was in a long-term relationship off and on (mostly on) from 2009-2018, before we finally admitted to each other that our life trajectories were heading in diverging directions and our incompatibilities (primarily that we’re two very different…
dating while trans
I Love My Partner. So Why Do I Want To Be Single Again?
Hey Doc, So, I lived very happily being single for some time – and I also had my quota of serious relationships in the past. But after some time being single, I met this girl in my home country that I really feel comfortable with. Then, fate happened: I moved to another country on another…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Date When I’m Transitioning?
Hello Dr NerdLove, First off, thank you for your wise, level – headed and sensible columns. They are exceedingly valuable and I took a lot from them. Here’s the thing, though. I recently (a few months ago) realised that, despite appearances to the contrary, I’m not actually male. While this is rather terrifying, I do…
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