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How Do I Start Being More Physically Attractive?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I (22/m) am not a good looking guy. I’m average at best, a little below if I’m being realistic. I’m under six feet tall, I’m chubby (bordering on fat), I have no muscle tone, I’ve got a baby face, mediocre hair, acne scars and a weird nose and a weak chin. I’ve…
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Men, This Is Why You THINK You’re Ugly
So, I’m gonna do something a little different today. There’re some letters I get over and over again. Not from the same person, but variations on an incredibly common theme. There are some letters and topics that come up so often with the same insecurities, often using identical language, that it seems pretty obvious they’re…
Are Looks REALLY All That Matter In Dating?
Hello, I’m a 17-year-old boy in Korea and my life’s been great, I have many friends, my grades are super good, and I have passion and confidence. But nowadays I’ve been thinking about love and I have some questions. You see, I had a crush whom is my close friend. Our personality matched so much…
Am I Just Too Ugly For Women To Love?
Hey Doc, I’m still struggling with women. I know that I need to work on my self confidence and get over my insecurities, but why am I always attracted to women who would never be interested in me? Should I lower what little standards I have and date someone who I may not be attracted…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Important Is Physical Attraction?
Hello Dr.! I’ve been reading your articles and posts for several years now, and I have a lot in common with some the other people who write to you. I’m a 36-year-old man who did well in high school and college, has done tolerably well in the workplace since I graduated (I’m far from wealthy,…
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