He was a malignant narcissist who made her miserable. So why does she still find herself thinking about him… even when she’s with her husband?
external validation
Help, I’m Afraid of Being An Accidental Creeper!
Hey Doc, I guess I am starting to understand where I’m going wrong, but I don’t know how to turn that into doing things right or perhaps better. I am on the autism spectrum, and I realize how I act to demonstrate I am attracted to someone makes most women uncomfortable. I try to be…
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Should I Get Plastic Surgery In Order To Get Dates?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Would it be too much trouble for you to help solve an ongoing debate between me and my friends? I’m a brand-new college graduate and the “ugly” one in my friend group, just as I was in high school and will probably always be. I’m slim, fit, tallish but not too tall,…
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Should I Fix My Relationship, Or Is It Time To Go?
Hi Doc Just wanted to say a massive thank you for all you do. You’re stuff hits home about a lot of my issues and you argue your point in a very intelligent and well rounded way. I have a lot of rage and resentment towards women and you help me understand why and try…
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I Went From “Not” to “Hot”. Why Is It STILL Not Enough For Me?
Hi Doc, TL;DR: used to be a nerdy loser, recently got my life together because of my fiancé, tempted to use my newfound powers. I’ve been stuck in this strange situation for some time and I’m trying to figure my way out of it. To cut a long story short, I’m 33. I spent the…
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How Do I Learn To Love Myself?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: A common truism you hear a lot about dating is “You have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. I’m bringing that up so I can tie dating to something I want to pick your brain on, which is about self-love. I find the messaging around how one…