Confidence is the double-edged sword of dating advice. It’s a classic catch-22: everyone is told that confidence is sexy, but if you don’t have it in the first place, it’s difficult to get it. Everyone tells you “just be more confident”, which is just about as useful as saying “You can fly! Just throw yourself at the ground and…
fake it 'till you make it
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Play Your Part
If you can post this without raising the incredible ire and discrimination I’m expecting from this question then so be it, also I would ask for a high level of discretion. If this were to get out it would ruin my job. And right now it is my only source of income. I am a…