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Episode #100 – Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?

November 21, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How do you tell the difference between when someone’s flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others
  • Why “Straight Dude Thinking” gets in the way of flirting success
  • Why we confuse parasocial relationships for genuine interest
  • How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you
  • The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested… and not just being friendly.

 

RELATED LINKS:

  • Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s the Difference Between Flirting and Just Being Friendly?
  • Read Her Signs (Without Reading The Tea Leaves)
  • Fix Your Flirting
  • How To Get Women To Approach You
  • 5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

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Filed Under: Podcasts, Skills Tagged With: are you flirting with me, emotional intelligence, find your flirting style, flirting, flirting mistakes, how to tell if she's flirting, is she flirting, podcast, podcasts, social calibration, the friend zone, youtube

Episode #93: The Flirting Mistakes That Kill Attraction

September 12, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

There’s a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting.  Advice that not only doesn’t work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occasionally piss them off. Meeting women can be hard enough without making flirting mistakes that’re going to backfire, messily and all over the place. The last thing you want to do is ruin your chances with a woman by making the wrong move. Women want to like you and for you to like them too. So don’t screw it up. Learn how to avoid these common flirting mistakes that men make and women HATE.

Show Highlights:

  • Why your attitude controls your dating success
  • How flirting the wrong way just wastes your time
  • The common mindset that drives women away
  • How many guys ruin the attraction they’ve built with women
  • Why status isn’t the attraction switch guys think it is

and so much more…

Related Links:

Five Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

The Mistakes Men Make WHen Approaching Women

Privilege, Entitlement and Dating

How To Not Being Creepy

The Mistakes Men Make That Cost Them Dates

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: attitude, attraction, attraction switches, building attraction, Dating mistakes, flirting, flirting mistakes, how to flirt, negging, podcasts, social status, when is flirting a bad idea

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