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Episode #127 – Why Women Won’t Text You Back

November 20, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won’t she text you back? Is time to panic?

When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn’t like you any more. But that’s not always the case. If your text conversations are drying up before you can get her out on a date, then you may be having one of these common issues.

Here’s why women won’t text you back… and what you can do about it.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • Why most reason why women won’t text a guy back — it’s not what you think.
  • How you end up telling women not to bother replying to your texts
  • What to say to keep a conversation flowing effortlessly via text
  • Why guys who know this one texting secret go on more dates and have more sex than the guys who don’t
  • The text that is GUARANTEED to get a response, even from someone who hasn’t responded in days or weeks.

… and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Common Texting Mistakes Men Make

How To Talk To Women On Social Media

How To Use Humor in Your Flirting

How to Be Instantly Magnetic To Women

How To Be Charming

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: how to talk to girls, how to talk to women, how to text girls, how to text women, podcasts, talking to women, texting ettiquette, texting mistakes, texting women, what not to do, youtube

Episode #121 – These 5 Things Make You Irresistible To Women

August 28, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It’s not about looks,  status or money. It’s about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom.

Show Highlights:

  • Why guys focus on surface issues… and miss the most important parts of attraction
  • Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you
  • How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking to her
  • Why you keep meeting the WRONG women
  • What makes a woman decide INSTANTLY whether she will EVER sleep with somebody

…and so much more.

Related Links:

Become Someone Worth Dating

The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes

Why Women Say Yes To Sex

This Is Why Women Won’t Date You

Build An Amazing Lifestyle That Attracts Women

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: can men and women be just friends, emotional chemistry, how to be charming, how to meet amazing women, how to talk to women, Meeting Women, physical chemistry, platonic friends, podcasts, what do women want, what makes men attractive

Episode #86 – How To Approach Women In Groups

July 26, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

A lot of men don’t know how to approach women in groups — whether they’re with other women or a mixed group of men, women and more. As a result, they tend to focus on that one person… and end up coming across like a hyena trying to separate a gazelle from the herd. Fortunately, it’s actually very easy to join in a groups, in a way that not only encourage them to accept you, but help you make a powerful connection almost immediately. 

You just have to understand how to manage group dynamics.

Show Highlights:

  • What men get wrong about approaching groups of women
  • The common mistake that gets you rejected by groups
  • How men send the wrong signal when approaching women
  • Why talking to one person in the group is a mistake
  • Understand the power of the 3:2 ratio

…and so much more

Related Links:

Reading The Room with Seanan McGuire

The No-Fear Guide To Navigating Parties Like A Pro

5 Different Ways To Boost Your Charisma, Instantly

Popularity 101

The Art of Social Calibration

5 Secrets To Make People Like You

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: approaching women, approaching women in groups, how to talk to women, Meeting Women, podcasts, talking to groups, youtube

Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates

June 21, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How often has this happened to you: you’ve got a woman’s number, but you never seem to be able to actually get a date. You may be doing great at first, but then you notice that it’s taking longer and longer for her to reply and those replies are getting shorter and shorter until you get… nothing. And now you’re left wondering just what happened… and why it keeps happening to you.

Texting may have been a godsend to shy, awkward guys who want to get dates, but you still have to know how to do it right. You may be used to talking with your thumbs like God intended, but that doesn’t mean that your texting game is all it should be. In fact, if you’re regularly getting radio silence or have a hard time turning numbers into dates, then you’re probably making one of these common texting mistakes.

Show Highlights:

  • How texting changed the dating game… and how it made things harder
  • Why so many men get ghosted after they get her number
  • The mistake men make when trying to build attraction over text
  • How even the most well-meaning men can end up ruining women’s interest in them through one wrong text
  • The number one mistake men make that costs them dates

…and so much more

Don’t forget to pre-order my new book I Got Her Number. Now What? A Geek’s Guide To Texting, Snapchatting and Sliding into DMs, coming July 24, 2018

Related Links:

Find Your Flirting Style

How to Use Humor In Your Flirting

How To Avoid Getting “The Fade”

The Mistake Men Make That Cost Them Dates

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: get her number, how to talk to women, I got her number now what, meet women, phone numbers, podcasts, texting, texting mistakes, youtube

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #57 – How To Tell Amazing Stories

December 7, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 1 Comment

Being interesting isn’t just about knowing things or having done incredible things. You also want to be able to share those experiences with others. Most of us don’t think about the way we present ourselves to others – not just in how we look or how we act, but about why people should want to get to know us or spend time with us.

This is why you need to know how to tell stories. When you’re in an interview and they ask you about a time that you overcame a challenge, you’re telling a story. When your date asks you about where you grew up or what you do for a living, you’re telling a story. When you’re pitching your services or your idea to others… you’re telling a story.

Telling a story about yourself is part of how you convey who you are. And the best, most interesting people out there are the ones who know how to convey information about themselves in a compelling, entertaining manner that not only gets the point across, but keeps the listener actively engaged.

Show Highlights:

  • Why how you tell your story is more important than what your story is about
  • How focusing on the end is the key to telling a good story
  • The way to structure a great story
  • The importance of creating vivid characters
  • Why every good story starts with the climax

…and so much more.

Related Links: 

How To Be Funny

How To Talk So People Will Listen

5 Secrets To Make People Like You

The Most Attractive Aspect of A Man (Isn’t Looks Or Money)

The Power of Expressiveness

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