Dear Doc, I need your help with something. I don’t know if I screwed up or not. I (24/m/cis) am (or I guess was) dating my girlfriend (23/f/cis) for about six months. Up until two weeks ago, this was the best relationship of my life. We were deep in that whole “honeymoon period” thing you…
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I’m Afraid To Enjoy Sex. What Do I Do?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve never written one of these, so apologies if it’s awkward or weird. I’ve never had an orgasm. This is not the fault of my partner of 10ish years, he’s wonderful. It’s me; anytime I get close, I panic and shut down. I don’t trust easily, due to a not-great upbringing, and…
Do I Have To Choose Between Love and Good Sex?
Hi Doctor, Recently, I’ve be doing a lot of self reflection and realized one big issue I deal with is loneliness. However, another thing I’ve come to question is my use of porn and my consumption of porn, especially my use of hard-core material. I’ve come to realise I feel unable to consume “regular” or…
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Help, My Wife Wants to Sleep With Someone Else
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m certain that you receive thousands of letters, but I am genuinely struggling and confused. My wife of 10 years (we’ve been together for 20 years total and have two kids together) has shared that she is into the idea of having sex with other people. Specifically, she is into the “Stag…
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Am I Masculine Enough To Be A “Real” Man?
Hi Doc, I guess I have questions… or maybe thoughts? It’s complicated. I’m a cis gay man. I think? I think that’s a part of it. I wish I was more masculine. I feel like my life would have been a lot easier if I had been… that it would be easier in the future…
How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I’m Ready To Try Her Kink?
Doctor’s Note: today’s column deals with talk of sexual assault in the context of people pretending to not consent to sexual activities. What’s up, Doc? I’m a 25 year old male, and I’m dating a 24 year old woman, we’ve been together about two months so far, and it’s mostly been very positive. We have…
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