Doc, please help.
I’ve been dating this great guy for two months, and the whole time he’s been talking about toys and buttplay. As it turns out, he’s a sub and wants to be dominated.
Sex, for me, has gotten less and less pleasing for me; meanwhile, now he wants to get his beads out. I’m frustrated because his dick has not been very hard the last couple times we had sex. I wanted to try and enjoy having sex with him but every time, he wants me to play with his ass. I can’t sleep and I’ve been crying about my feelings of inadequacy. I don’t want to disappoint my BF, just as I’m trying to tell him it’s been shitty sex. I just want to have normal sex with a hard dick. And I usually do and it’s great.
Should I break up with this guy? Or is worth experimenting with anal beads and stuff? I feel bad but I just can’t do it.
Not Up for Butts