I have a question for you: where is your community? Where do you find your crowd, your squad, your team? Who do you look to to feel part of something greater than yourself? Who do you have in your life who lifts you up when you’re down? Where do you feel the most connected to…
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What Bad Boys Know That Nice Guys Don’t
One of the more tedious ideas in dating advice is the idea of “nice guys finish last” and “girls love bad boys”. It’s a truism that never seems to fully go away – the idea that women love assholes and will pick them over the self-described “nice guy”. The idea of assholes and bad boys…
Find Your Swagger
One of the things that divides the desirable men from the single ones is simple: the desirable men have that swagger. A man who’s connected with his swagger is someone who’s tapped into a level of charisma that other people simply don’t have. Swagger is that mix of confidence and assurance that gives a man…
Level Up: Getting Fit (for The First Time)
Whenever guys talk about being more attractive, they talk a lot about getting fit as though it were the keys to the kingdom. Get fit, get those six-pack abs, those striated muscles that look like shredded wheat and women will beat a path to your pants. And to be sure: one of the key parts…
Develop Your Lifestyle
There’s a question from my PUA days that I used to ask women: “what do you have going for you besides your looks?” I freely admit, it was a bit of a neg. It’s asking “sure, you’re cute, but why should I be interested in you?” It was a way of saying “tell me what…
Level Up: 5 Different Ways To Boost Your Charisma
For the latest installment of the new Level Up series, I want to talk to you about how to be more charismatic. Charisma is an important part of being a more desirable, datable person. Charisma is the difference between someone that people like to spend time with and the people who may be well liked……
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