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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #56 – How To Be The Most Interesting Man In The Room

November 30, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 15 Comments

This week, I want to give you one of the most valuable tips I can possibly give. This is that One Simple Trick, that single thing that you can do that will double your online dating success, make you the center of attention at any gathering and ensure that you will be absolutely magnetic.

It’s very simple.

You want to be interesting.

Interesting people are more charismatic. Interesting people are more memorable. They’re more fun to talk to. And learning to be more interesting is far easier than you might ever realize.

Show Highlights:

What people get wrong about how to be interesting
One simple way of becoming more interesting, immediately
The importance of “Yes”
Why you should find your stories
What interesting people do that boring people don’t

…and so much more.

Related Links:

Develop Your Lifestyle – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/level-up-develop-your-lifestyle/

Become Someone Worth Dating – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/become-someone-worth-dating/

Do You Pass The Grimes Test? – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/pass-grimes-test/

Develop Your Lifestyle – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/level-up-develop-your-lifestyle/

The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man (Isn’t Looks or Money) – https://www.doctornerdlove.com/leveling-up-most-attractive-man/

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A Man’s Guide To Being Happy About Being Single

November 20, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 134 Comments

It can be hard to be single at times – especially when the holidays roll around. When the universe seems determined to rub your face in not being in a relationship, it can be difficult not to be jealous of all those happy couples out there. You end up feeling like the last guy picked for kickball, the only dude not to get the invite to the party. When even dudes who don’t seem to have half of what you have to offer are coupling up, it’s understandable to wonder if you’re under an ancient curse.

“Maybe I shouldn’t have run over the old fortune teller’s goldfish…”

It’s entirely understandable that you’re going to feel as though you’re missing out. Paradoxically though, trying to couple up isn’t the answer. In fact, focusing on trying to find a girlfriend will actually make things worse. Like Sisyphus rolling the rock up the hill, you’re going to find yourself miserable and further from your goals than before. And even if you do find a partner, you’ll discover that your loneliness doesn’t magically disappear.

So instead of beating yourself up about your being the Last (Single) Man On Earth, you want to focus on what will make your life infinitely better: you want to learn how to be happy being single.

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How The Right Life Makes Meeting Women Easier

July 17, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 162 Comments

There are a lot of ways to go about meeting women. You can do cold approaches – whether at bars, clubs, parties or even your local Barnes & Noble. You can focus your time and attention on online dating and building the perfect dating profile. Hell, you can sit around and hope for the Universe to provide you with a date.

I mean, it won’t work, but you can do it.

“Maybe if I complain on Reddit just a little more…”

But no matter what path you decide to follow, there’s one area that you can’t afford to neglect: your life. Guys who spend time building and maintaining the right life will find that they are naturally and effortlessly attracting women. They aren’t using any special technique or high-value secret. They’re simply leading a life that women want to be a part of – and one that brings them together with virtually no work on his part.

There is no technique that is going to compensate for not having your shit together. There’s no dating profile photo that is going to overcome not having anything in your life. But if you have your shit together and are following some best practices for a fulfilling, happy life? Then you’ll find that you’re meeting women almost effortlessly.

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Meet Women Effortlessly

April 24, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 197 Comments

How often do you wish that you could meet women without having to work at it? What about if new and amazing women would just be a part of your life, with barely any effort on your part? Odds are you’d be pretty down with that idea, wouldn’t you? After all, one of the hardest parts of meeting women is, simply, doing so in a way that feels authentic to who you are. Not everybody is going to feel comfortable going to bars or clubs after all. Many may have a hard time just approaching strangers. Cold approaches are a valuable skill to learn – and one I highly recommend – but they’re not the only way or even the best way to meet women. Even online dating, for all of its convenience, can be difficult for people.

“YOU HAVE BETRAYED ME FOR THE LAST TIME, TINDER!”

But it is possible to meet women in a way that feels authentic and utterly effortless. With a little preparation on your part, you can live a life that will bring amazing women into your orbit in a way that is as natural as breathing.

Ready to get started?

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Find Your Community

March 27, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 294 Comments

I have a question for you: where is your community? Where do you find your crowd, your squad, your team? Who do you look to to feel part of something greater than yourself? Who do you have in your life who lifts you up when you’re down? Where do you feel the most connected to others?

This is actually not a joke. Keep reading. — And Reddit doesn’t count.

Odds are… you don’t actually have much of a community. In fact, odds are good that you may have noticed the people you are close to are dwindling rapidly.

In fact: since the 80s, we have been increasingly disconnected from the world around us. Many people have no close friends at all.

It’s ironic that, at a time when we are more connected than ever, we are also more isolated than ever before. Despite the almost infinite number of ways to reach out to others, we are lonelier that we’ve ever been. We need more than just ways to stay in contact with people; we need to connect with them. Humans are social animals. We have a need to belong. We need a community, and most of us are drifting through life alone.

So how do you find your community?

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