Hi Dr NerdLove I need your help
I’ve got myself in a sticky situation with a girl I’m starting to date. Well let start at the beginning.
So one Day in class this really cute girl sits next to me and we start talking and hit it off. So it turns out she is being the nerd I’ve ever meet. She plays d&d, reads the books, plays yu-gi-oh and is a gamer. So I’m like there’s a unicorn in front of me and I have to kill it, skin it, mount it head on my wall and make sauge with its body. So I end up getting her number( she gave it to me I didn’t have to ask) , we start texting and have been texting for the last month or so.
I also immediately made sure to stay of the friend zone. I told her I was interested in her but not ready for relationship having just gotten out of one. So fast forward to now a month later and I ask her out on a date and she says yes. So I’m texting her later on and she say her girlfriend( i knew she was bi) is okay with it as long as she comes home to her. My brain completely melts at this revelation. I’m ask her if she was Poly and she didn’t know what that meant so I ask her if she would have multiple partners and she didn’t give me a clear answer. So we still have date on Saturday and today I find out her mother knows about me. I’m so confused because I really like this more than any other girl I’ve been around so I’m hoping this turns out well but there are a lot of variables involved. My friends are like leave it alone but I don’t know. Please help Dr. NerdLove your my only hope.
P.s I’m a dude.