The sex has been gone for a while in their relationship. Is polyamory the answer? How can they use polyamory to save their relationship?
low self-esteem
Did Porn Ruin My Love Life?
He started using porn at 12. Now he’s worried that his porn usage has ruined him. Is he an addict? How can he have a healthier connection with sex?
Why Am I So Intimidated By Beautiful Women?
Hi Doc, I’m a cis/het male age 30 living in a really booming region of the USA. I have a great job that I’m proud of, my own place, and a small group of close friends of both men and women. As far as hobbies, I’m super into Latin dancing after first picking it up…
Help, My Boyfriend Wants to Move To Another Country!
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’ve known my partner for around 1.5 years. He’s from a foreign country, but his parents are from here. He moved here half a year ago, the plan was to stay here for 1-2 years to learn the language and work. Entering the relationship was a difficult decision for him, because he…
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How Do I Learn To Love Myself?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: A common truism you hear a lot about dating is “You have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. I’m bringing that up so I can tie dating to something I want to pick your brain on, which is about self-love. I find the messaging around how one…
How Do I Overcome My Fear of Fixing Myself?
Doctor’s Note: I’ll be hosting a FREE, live workshop about sex, dating and relationships during the COVID-19 pandemic on the Dr. NerdLove YouTube channel on Tuesday, 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Come join me and learn about how to date and manage your relationships during the era of self-isolation and social distancing! Hey Doc, I…