Dear Dr NerdLove, About 12 months ago I met a man. I instantly had a crush on him but I didn’t know why. It didn’t make sense. Whenever he was in the office, I was excited to see him. I would express this, thinking that this was just a friendship thing. About 6 months ago…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Partner I’m Actually A Virgin?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m a 24 year old woman. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a month, and he’s the first guy I really fell in love with. Everything seems to be fine except for one thing: I’m afraid to tell him I’m a virgin. We have already done some foreplay but…
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Should I Give My Ex Another Chance?
Hi Doc, There’s something bugging me lately, and I can’t figure a way out or make a conscious decision about it. I’m from France, so apologies for any issues with my English. To give some background, I’ll tell a few things. First, I must say that I’m bipolar, and thus always had abandonment issues in…
Help, I’m Afraid It’s Too Late For Me To Find Love!
Dear Doc: I woke up in March and April of 2020 to the fact that I was an obese virgin that had no chance whatsoever of finding a girl to be in a relationship with, let alone just hook up with. After almost killing myself I decided to try and change. Between May and November…
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How Do I Get Over My Virginity Anxiety?
Doctor’s Note: Hey NerdLovers! It’s a new year and I want to help start 2021 off on a positive note. So I want to hear from you: what are some of your relationship wins? How have you improved your personal life, your friendships or your romantic relationships? What are some of the ways you’ve made…
Is My Partner Just Settling For Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, first things first: my partner (38NB, they/them) and I (28F) both have histories of abusive relationships. Their most recent partner before they met me was physically, sexually, and emotionally violent towards them; I had gotten out of a sexually predatory and abusive relationship with a much older man. We both understand…