I have been reading the material on your blog for a while now. I really appreciate finding someone who knows so much about how it is like to be me.
I am a 41 year old man who has a bad case of oneitis (co-dependent obsession) since I was still a teen. I realized this along with finding that I have Avoidant Personality Disorder 6 months ago. I am a geek who does not socialize with other geeks unless I am escorted by the object of my obsession. I can not do that right now because of the current status of my relationship with her.
I found with the help of my semi-professional counselor that a sex first approach will be an easier way for me to start with other women. I have been doing heavy reading on sexual techniques and would like to have someone to try them on.
So, my question is where can a find women who want NSA sex. I have looked at Adult Friend Finder, but have been discouraged by what I have heard about it being filled with scamers and prostitutes. The people in the local Poly community that I know I can not ask for help right now because of envy issues. They are her partners. I have a friend in the kink community, but that is not what I am really interested in right now.
Do you have any suggestions on how I can find women to have sex with without doing conventional dating? I do not have high standards for women if it is just about sex.
Depressed as Fuck