A traumatic break up and subsequent loss of friends have left him isolated and dateless for a decade. How can he open up about being lonely without ruining things?
recovery from trauma
How Can I Meet, Flirt With and Date New People and Still Feel Safe?
After years of physical and sexual abuse, he’s ready to try to date again. How can he meet women and date while still feeing safe and secure?
I’m Afraid That I’m Too Broken To Be Loved
Years of intense emotional abuse have taken their toll. Now she’s free of her abuser… but has she been hurt too badly to find somebody new?
I’m Afraid To Enjoy Sex. What Do I Do?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve never written one of these, so apologies if it’s awkward or weird. I’ve never had an orgasm. This is not the fault of my partner of 10ish years, he’s wonderful. It’s me; anytime I get close, I panic and shut down. I don’t trust easily, due to a not-great upbringing, and…
I Was Abused. How Do I Keep My Trauma Out of My Dating Life?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been thinking about an idea that appeals to me, and wondering if there are some deeper lessons that can be learned from it. I would appreciate a qualified second opinion on the matter, and so I would like to hear your advice, if that is alright. Background details (to let you…
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Episode #148 — What Can Avatar: The Last Airbender Teach Us About Finding Remption?
It’s very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can’t change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in modern media, we can learn how Prince Zuko overcame trauma and earned his redemption… and…
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