Hi there, I love your podcast, specially the “Sex for Beginners” episode was fun to listen to.
My problem is that my experience with women is quite low, I had at the age of 24 my first time intercourse without an orgasm (and what was for me far more awkward) she also had none. Prior it I had just a few experiences wich could be counted under “clothed lapdance” or “heavy petting”, no blowjob yet. Since I’m now already 30 I worry that I’m totally incompatible with women.
I see two or better three problems:
– my shyness, I can’t beat that silly shyness that keeps me from talking to girls wich I like. Even alcohol won’t help. The really few attempts I sounded like an idiot, almost stuttered and left while the girls turned their backs to me.
– my rest-virginity, since I haven’t had much experience with girls (heck, I never kissed nor did I learn it)
– my handicap, broken kidneys and dialysis. Because of it my interest in girls started with 19 or 20 first. My selfconfidence for my body suffered a bit by it since my arm has some scars and a bigger lump, doesn’t make sexy.
So, I could need some advise how I could attract women since at the moment I can visit bars or clubs… somehow I’m the one standing at the bar or in the corner without company, ignored by the females.
Can you give me a hint or do you need more information?