Dear Dr. NerdLove: This’s the first time I wrote to someone so apologise for mistakes or missed details that are important. I am 27 year old Middle Eastern guy. Highly educated and have a big circle of friends. I’m currently living in a European country but I lived in few different ones and my dating…
self-limiting beliefs
How To Take Back Your Power In Dating
Whenever I see people, especially men, talking about their struggles in dating, there’s one myth that comes up over and over again: the concept of who has all the power in dating. It’s never long before someone will bring up how women have all the advantages when it comes to dating. Because women – theoretically…
This is How You Solve Your Dating Problems
It doesn’t matter who you are, what you do, or what you look like; at some point your love life is going to go pear-shaped – quite possibly messily and all over the place. Sometimes it may only be for a few days or weeks. Other times, you end up in a dry spell that…
I’m Afraid I’ll Be Forever Alone… And It’s Not My Fault!
Hello Sir I want to preface this letter by saying that I don’t believe that I am “forever alone” because of my looks, height, or lack of social skills. I’m 6 “1” and I’ve been told by people that I’ve met that I am fairly handsome, and although I do have social anxiety and (mild)…
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Help, My Ex Is Dating Someone Else and I Can’t Handle It
Dear Doc, I recently got out of a three year relationship that was my longest so far. It wasn’t perfect and the breakup want pretty. There was a lot of toxicity between me and my ex and we were in two different places in life. Since my ex moved out of my house. I’ve been…
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How Do I Get Over My Fear of Women?
Hello Doc, I’ve been struggling for over a decade to express my interest and sexual desire to women in any meaningful way. When opportunity is there, I instinctively disengage and mentally collapse inward. I become physically anxious and upset, even while my thoughts are calm or elsewhere altogether. Call it shyness, call it social anxiety,…