Last week we talked about part of how somebody can get the sex they want without relying on douchebaggery. This week, we’re going to continue that trend and talk about how guys can learn to become sexier. After all, we’re not just people, sometimes we’re also pieces of meat, and we would like to be treated accordingly.
One of the things that trips people up regularly is that we mistake being attractive for sex-appeal. The two often intertwine, but they aren’t the same thing. After all, there are people of all genders who’re attractive but have the sex appeal of a rock. A particularly selfish rock. At the same time, there are people who may have the face of a bulldog chewing on a thistle, but they radiate sex appeal. This isn’t a matter of feel-good woo woo bullshit; there’ve been a number of studies that have documented how certain aspects and personality traits outweigh physical looks when it comes to influencing who women want to have sex with.
Sexiness is about what makes somebody decide they want to sleep with you or not. Being good looking can help, it’s not the only issue. We’ve all encountered someone with a body to make a saint kick out a stained glass window, but five seconds of conversation killed any interest in sex. They might be dumb as a post. It may be that they got off to the idea of crush videos. It may be that they were a Hanzo main. Regardless: they were attractive… but not sexy.
The key is to remember that being sexy is about the holistic person, not any one factor. The traits that make people sexier tend to stack; like the best buffs, individual traits combine to create a sexy, mouthwatering whole.
And the good news is: these are all things that you can learn and develop. If you know what traits to pay attention to and cultivate?
Well, that means you can make yourself into that sexy love machine you’ve always wanted to be. Ready to get started?