It’s said that times of crisis and trouble are what reveal someone’s true character. That we are most authentically ourselves in the times when we are tested, our support is ripped away and we are forced to confront hardship in ways we never do otherwise. It is in those minutes that we see the truth…
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Episode #110 – The Truth About Women And Casual Sex
Why aren’t more women interested in casual sex? What can guys do to find women who’re interested in a no-strings hook-up? It’s time to talk about the TRUTH about women, casual sex and how to find it… SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why women prefer relationships to hook-ups and casual partners ▶︎ How the orgasm gap affects…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do Guys Only Want Me For Sex?
Hello Dr. NerdLove, I am at my wits end trying to suss out why men only see me as worthy for sex, and not a relationship. I see you advise many men on being awkward and asperger-y, but if there’s a woman one related to my issues well I’ve missed it. I’d kill for some…
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The Incel Phenomenon: Fixing The Wrong Sexual Crisis
I see we’re not done talking about incels. After Alek Minassian’s deadly attack on innocents in Toronto, scores of people decided to share their hot takes about how to “handle” the incel problem. Of course: like as not, the “problem” they focused on was that incels were angry virgins instead of the hate and misogyny…
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The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment
As the revelations of sexual harassment, abusers and general shitbags rolls on, so to does the inevitable pushback to the #metoo movement. And while there have always been people who insist that we’re creating a culture where any sort of flirting might be mistaken for harassment and an innocent gesture might end a well-meaning man’s…
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #37 – Understanding The “Price” of Sex
One pernicious idea surrounding sex is the commodity model or the “market value” of sex. The idea behind the “economy” of sex is a model of interaction between straight men and women based on the idea of supply and demand. It comes in a number of flavors – some of them more overtly misogynistic than…
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