Hey there Dr. Nerdlove! I simply wanted to drop you a line, I really appreciate the fact that you offer sex positive and feminist oriented dating advice. One of my big problem with the pick up community when I started getting into it is that it made me into a somewhat awful individual that didn’t…
the friend zone
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Just A Friend
Hey Doc, You may of covered a lot of what I have to ask before, but here it goes. I have a really close friend, that i’m crazy about. I’ve asked her out in he past but that was at a time that she just wasn’t looking for a relationship (she is very commitment-phobic) Recently…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Time Enough For Love
Hey Doc, I REALLY need your help. I’m begging you… I’m going to cut to the chase. I suffer mental illness and boy did it fuck up my past relationship. I was with a guy from Canada for 2 1/2 years so I already had THAT against me being an American. While I admittedly had…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Ludicrous Speed!
Hi Doc, I’m not very good at cutting to the chase, but I’ll make my best effort. I’m sailing some weird waters, making a connection with someone I met through a dating website. She’s trans. That’s not really the problem, but it complicates the problem. I live with my parents. I dated a disaster a…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Schrödinger’s Come-On
Dear Dr. Nerdlove, I’m a nerd of the female persuasion, with a loving and nerdly partner whom I’m about to marry. Things are great with him; our relationship is the best thing that ever happened to me. However, our romance grew from an existing friendship, and he is the first and only person I’ve ever…
The Top 5 Dating Mistakes – And How To Solve Them
The course of getting better at dating never runs smoothly. It’s inevitable that you’re going to run into mistakes, problems, plateaus and roadblocks as you progress; it’s a part of the learning progress that everybody has to go through. Sometimes it’s just a brain-fart that screws you up for an evening. Sometimes it’s something that…
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