It seems like modern dating is an awful experience for everyone. How did it get this way? Why aren’t we changing it? And how does one date like this?
the red pill
How Do I Let Go of My Red Pill Beliefs?
Hey Doc – I’m sure you receive a ton of questions every day, but I am going to try to ask one that is worth your time. I was very happily “blue pilled,” if just being a normal dude and holding normal belief about dating can be called that, for the first 19 or so…
Men, This Is Why You THINK You’re Ugly
So, I’m gonna do something a little different today. There’re some letters I get over and over again. Not from the same person, but variations on an incredibly common theme. There are some letters and topics that come up so often with the same insecurities, often using identical language, that it seems pretty obvious they’re…
5 Harsh Truths About Dating (And What You Can Do About It)
I want to tell you some harsh truths about dating. Truths that, when you understand them, will explain why dating can be a nightmare. However, once you’re able to face those truths, you’ll find that dating will actually be simpler and more enjoyable. And the key to understanding them starts with gambling and religious pigeons….
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s Wrong With My Being a Pick-Up Artist?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m a 29 year old man living in Texas. Growing up and even in my early 20s, I kept getting rejected by women. I was pissed this kept happening so I decided to do something about it. Because look, if I’m the common denominator, the problem is ME. First, I focused on…
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How Do We Tell Our Families We’re Polyamorous?
Hi Doc – My wife and I have been together for 11 years and have 3 great kids. About three years ago my wife’s friend moved in during a tough spot and never left – we have been a ‘throuple’ ever since and she gave birth about a year ago. After our daughter was born…
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