Dear Dr. NerdLove: My ex and I broke up a couple months ago; we were together 2 years and six months. She broke up with me because she said that I was manipulating her, even though I wasn’t and if I did it wasn’t on purpose. After this we stopped talking for a month. When…
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How Do I Read My Girlfriend’s Mixed Signals?
Hi Dr NerdLove, This question may be a little all over the place but hopefully you can help me out. I’ve been dating this girl for around four months. I am really into her, but the mixed signals she is giving me has me in a constant tailspin and I’m about to throw in the…
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Is My Ex Using Me To Destroy His Marriage?
Hello Doc! Long time lurker, first time writer( insert all gushing here). I really like how you give honest, occasionally painful but also necessary advice. I have a kinda awkward question for you and I hope you can help, because I am at a loss at the moment. I have been very lucky in that…
How Do I Tell If My Coworker is Flirting With Me?
Hi Doc- I (m/30s) have a complicated question. There is someone I work with, let’s call her B, who I have become attracted to. We have worked together for about 8 months. We work at a college, in an office setting though, not a classroom. I am a professional staff member, B is a graduate…
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How Do I Let Go of My Red Pill Beliefs?
Hey Doc – I’m sure you receive a ton of questions every day, but I am going to try to ask one that is worth your time. I was very happily “blue pilled,” if just being a normal dude and holding normal belief about dating can be called that, for the first 19 or so…
How Do I Go From Being an FWB to A Boyfriend?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m (m/24) a reader for the last few years and I never expected to actually have a question for you but I guess I do now. I’ve got a girl (f/22) I’ve been seeing for a while and things are going ok and I know what you’re going to say so yes…
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